NotByChoice.org is a website that was created for people in the Frum Jewish Community that feel stuck and have no outlet to vent, no courage to make a move, no strength to live their life the way they want to.

This site was not created to influence you or guide you on how to live your life or to pressure you to do anything you do not believe in. This was created for the purposes of alleviating the stress for the people that are not living their life style they want and instead are stuck in a situation that makes them miserable.

There is no cost to join this site, there is no specific criteria needed to be part of the site, other than you feel you are in the same boat as the other members. In order to join this group, you will need to email us at newmembers@notbychoice.org with your name, address and basic information.

Our goal is get together all these people and make a stand together. With the support of a large group, we will be able to wake up one morning and not be scared to live our life and not have to be pressured by other people on how we should live our own lives.